My Story

I grew up believing you always had to “work hard”

Born in 1990s Romania, like many people from my generation, I grew up with the mindset that you always had to “work hard” — to get the best grades at school, get into the best university and, later on, secure the most stable job possible. Life felt like one endless competition, and the work never seemed to stop. On top of that came the social pressure: by 30, you were somehow expected to have already ticked off the whole list: career, home, marriage, children. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it?

Work had started to take over my entire identity

I was spending so much time working that work had started to take over my entire identity. It’s true, I’d had an incredible professional journey and had ticked off that whole list above, but I felt like I was losing my sense of purpose. I went through a period of burnout and came out of it having only learned half the lesson. Then came the chaos of the pandemic and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with becoming a new mum. Suddenly, I realised: something had to change.

I remembered the parts of myself I had left behind

I remembered that, in the rush for achievement and social status, I had left behind the inner child who longed for creativity. Even though I had been painting since primary school and had graduated from drama school, somehow those passions had got lost along the way. In practice, I had erased who I really was, partly out of fear, but also in the name of adapting and building an identity that felt more acceptable in our society.

But what if I didn’t have to choose who to be?

Today, I am on a mission to reorganize my life and career around my innate talents. My passions for art and theater now take center stage, and work is becoming another form of expressing my identity.

I realised that sometimes you don’t have to limit yourself to having just one job; perhaps your identity needs to be honoured and expressed through several activities at the same time, with your job being just one slice of the cake, not the whole thing.

Enter stage: Portfolio career

There’s also a name for the way I started rebuilding my career: a portfolio career. Instead of having a single professional role define who you are, a portfolio career can bring together multiple roles, projects and activities that coexist and evolve alongside you.

For me, that means no longer trying to choose between the things that are part of who I am, but finding the right place for each of them within the same professional story.

What my portfolio career looks like today

Career counselling

I help people rewrite their professional stories and rediscover forgotten parts of themselves, so they can build a career around their life, not the other way around.

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HR

I work with people and organisations, bringing together my HR experience with the way I’ve come to see careers, work and the people behind the roles differently.

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Public Speaking

I bring experiences, ideas and questions about career, identity and the courage to build your own path to the stage, opening up conversations worth having.

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Acting

It is one of the parts of myself I once left behind. Today, the diversity of my portfolio career makes my roles in theater and film all the richer and more successful.

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I believe this is the only way we can build truly fulfilling lives, break patterns that no longer serve us, and raise a new generation of self-aware, responsible and authentic adults who are capable of creating positive change in the world.

If my story inspired you and you’d like to talk, I’m only a coffee away.

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